Dear Monica Nobody on this board Is saying You are a bad Mother just because your daughter wears protection at night Thats Fine it works for you Great! I post on this board because one reason I have gone through bedwetting myself and 2. my children have I was your daughters age and still wet untill aged 17 but stopped ! thankfully. I try to give constructive and helpfull advise Im not telling anyone what to do we all have our own views on everything in life you have too as you have just exhibited your view!. but this board is for advise not to tell people what they must do!occasionally some one may say that they feel that forcing a child into nappies is in their opinion the wrong way to go about things but that is an opinion!. and can be construed as advice there again it could be construde as telling a person what to do !but if i post here Even if i said the above i am not telling anyone what to do they are the parent at the end of the day it is up to them what they do with their child unless of course they are abusing that child then of course it is everyones right to complain! hope this explaines my view on what you have posted. best wishes , Tom