hi my son did the samething it worked but was sum wut harsh what i did was i came home early from work one day and foung my son sleeping with a wet and silded diaper. he awoke and tried to get up. i said "its o.k. lay down. i also have a younger duaghter so i got her bottle and asked him were he kept his diapers he said in my clostet i got a knew one out and grabed some baby wipes and changed him. ithink he was supprised. well his punishment was that he would be completely treated ike a baby for 2 months. at first he didnt care he kept pooping and peeing and liked the attention until we went to the malla and i changed him on the diaper deck in front of alot of girls. he sttill really didnt car then we went to the local park were i changed him infront of kids that he knew. he still was stubbron we then went to the beach nd he had to were the swimmer diapers with nothing over them and made him go swim he still pooped so i changed him infront of alot of people. he still wets the bed but not very bad i prefere him to were luvs to bed. this works great. trust me if yours isnt stubron shell freak the first time at the beach/pool