Stephanie, After I asked her for cooperation and it was ignored she was spanked big time. She had a trip over my knee and a mounth of diaper changing. One thing I forgot to mention is that we had different thicknesses of diapers made up a 2ply 4 ply 10 ply. Start your training with the 10 ply and as she improves move to the 4 ply ect. If she falls back move back up up to the 10ply during the day. We found daytime in a dress 10 ply diapers and plastic pants was a real motivator. She wore them after school and all day on weekends as needed. Jackie