i would not worry too much about your daughter having to wear rubbers for bed.my son is 14 and still requires a nappy and rubbers(plastic pants)for bed as does my daughter. we have tried everything to stop them from wetting but it`s something they will hopefully grow out of. i bought my nappies and rubbers from `drylife`in the uk and as you use the term `rubbers`i take it that you live in the uk. we keep it in the family and no one need know, both my kids accept nappies are part of their bed clothes but i would reccomend that if she is a heavy wetter,to put her in two pairs of rubbers over the nappy the second pair being a little bigger like my son has to,then their is no leakage.good luck.