dear Rachel,I might have a good advise for your daughter's problem.She is afraid,so you write, that her friends will find out about her wearing good nites. Good-nites are in my country-The Netherlands- also available, my daughter has tried them too,and I can asure you, they do show off under tight jeans or short pants . My 14 years old daughter now wears a disposible Tena-mini with a pair of snug fitting plastic-or rubber panties;that's all, no panty over it,and NOTHING shows off under any tight clothing.I hope this advise is helpful .