the diapers should be provided if the child is on medcaid then the diaper are payed for by the state if the aprents are not getting this resource please refer them to me for help i am a special needs child advocate please for your sake don't use the word "RETARDER" it offends alot of parents the word means to slow up especially by preventing or hindering advance or accomplishment as per websters steve@steveandshelley.org http://www.steveandshelley.org/special.htm