Dear Rachel,re: your 13 yr old wearing pullups 24/7 I sympathise with her and her anguish over being found out wearing such aparel well There is no shame in wearing such aparel and tell her if she is found out she will soon know who her true friends are as they will stick by her and help her where as those whom are not such good friends will fall away true friends will stick by you through thick and thin!. best wishes, Tom