Cindy, Unfortunately I have to agree with you at present that the chat rooms on this site are not very safe. I have never visited the kids' rooms myself, but some "kids" have come into the adult room who were clearly not who they said they were, and the problem of diaper fetish seems to be absolutely rampant on this site. I have even seen genuine kids (as far as I could tell) come into the adult room and tell me that they were only doing it because there were so many disingenuous people in the kids' rooms. I hope this site will eventually wake up and take their promises of monitored conversations seriously. I am currently a youth pastor, and I have a couple of bedwetters in my youth group, but I can't even recommend this site to them because there are so many unsavory characters here. If you do know of a safer site where kids can talk about this, I would love to hear about it. By the way, to echo the other replies, THANKS for posting a story that shows that this problem can indeed be handled successfully without resorting to diapers. I wet nightly until I was around 12 and occasionally for long after that, and I am so thankful that I was never put in diapers after having read some of the stories from parents and kids on this page. I don't think it's necessarily always wrong to use diapers, but I hope that any parents who are considering it will read Jared's example above. Thanks again, Cindy, and take care!