steph should a body search be instigated for any reason then if it is a child then the parent has to be present and obviously if it was a girl then that Body search would be carried out by a female and I dont think any comment would be made by staff if they did then it would be done discreetly and the female searcher would I hope take you aside and ask why your 14 yr old is wearing pullups but obviously I dont think they would as a female would obviously know what a pull up is for!. so I dont think there would be any problem there!.