Everything said sounds very practical just what I would expect from a bunch of men. I am sure Amy and her family have left by now but if anyone finds them self in the situation of a long overnight flight. You think it is like putting a diaper on your 3 or 4 year old because you have a long drive. NOT!!! For a girl 10 and 14 years appearance is important and you need to choose what to ware. One thing I do know is that men looked at me a lot closer at age 14 than they did when I was 10 that’s just human nature. When I was in the situation of a long overnight flight at age 10 mom and I chose very carefully what to ware. I had to be the prettiest girl on the plane but not overdressed comfortable but not showing that I had a diaper. We decided on a mid length kind of violet flowered dress with white tights and complementing pendent. As for the likely hood of an accident not very myself I didn’t sleep much on the trip down. For the trip back mom must have thought I was restless or something. She gave me a little pink pill I think it was a benadryl about an hour in to the flight so I slept until it was time to put the seat in the upright position for landing. Sometimes the doctor will prescribe something and the likely hood of an accident is increased and using protection is probly the safest way to go. Now if you decide to put on protection before you leave home or you decide to change into while in flight you will have to walk past people with protection on. If you are a 14-year-old girl you know that the men will look at you so you will need to be creative whit what you ware.