Steph No-one well at least I was not saying that a girl aged 14 would not get noticed especially when there is a prominent bulge of a nappy or pullup coming from the Girls posteria of course one would notice and I would agree with you that you have to be discreet about those things because Unfortunately people notice and then start to critisize which they shouldnt (but thats human nature . and probably as you have said this family would have probably gone by now on their trip!.best wishes,Tom.UK