Dear Jolie,What steph and Mark have said I concur with having 2 special needs children one with ADHD and another with ADD these two diagnosis are what is known as part of the Autistic spectrum of Disorders My one son Has Aspergers syndrome and the other Autistic tendentcies Ritalin was advised my the specialist but we chose not to go down that root ! and he is quite well withoutr it!.I wet the bed till I was 17 and would sleep through it as a parent whose children wet you must be together on what you decide your husband probably dont understand the problem in its entirety but i do support both mark and steph in what they have said!.best wishes, Tom