My husband and i work during the day.Three months ago i was not feeling very good. I left the hospital three hours early and went home to get into bed.Iwas almost asleep when Pam came home. She did not notice that i was home,(usualy i am not at that time).I went to let her know that i was home.Her bedroom door was about half closed. When i peeked into her room i saw her at her dresser, standing, looking into the mirror. I waited to see what the heck she was up to. All of a sudden i heard a kind of crackling sound.Pam's cheeks turned beat red. It did not take long for my nose to let me know that she had pooped her pants on purpose. I got so angry that i walked into room.Pam was so surprised,she looked like she was having a coronary.After she took a shower we fought for almost two hours.Pam finaly told me that she enjoyed coming home, after school,and pooping in her panties.After talking to her father,my husband,i decided that i was not going to tolerate this behavior from my daughter.After two sick days i returned to work. While at the hospital i put some adult diapers in my bag and took them home.I confronted Pam that night and told her if she was going to continue messing her pants she could not go in her expensive panties.Instead,she was to come home and put on a diaper and go in it.After all that is what diapers are made for.The next morining i put one of diapers on her bedand left a note reminding Pam what we had talked about the night before.when i got home that night Pam's hair was still wet from a shower.last week,september 15 i was taking out the trash and found a very messy and wet diaper.Well Pam and i are going to see a psychologist next week to deal with this problem.Any body been there? Advise would be nice.