You really , really , really need to talk to someone . My Dad spankes me too , but NOT for bedwetting , or peeing in the day . Your Dad must not understand that you can't help it . Tell your school counselor or someone . We should never be punished for something we can't help . I wet in the day too , but my Dad lets me wear Pampers or sometimes Goodnites . Lets toal on e-mail if you like bedwetr12@yahoo.com