I am very sorry that you get spanked for something that is not your fault. My little girl wets the bed too and she wants so badly to stop. I am sure you would love to stop more than anything. See if you can get your parents to read books or websites about bedwetting. What you do when you are asleep is not your fault, anymore than it is a grown-ups fault for snoring. Maybe you can show your parents how responsible you are by changing your own bedding and ask your mom to show you how to do the laundry. Good luck.