I'm an 18 year old female and I've been a bedwetter all of my life. I also have accidents in my pants (wetting and messing) during the day. I can't hold it for more than 20 minutes or I have an accident in my pants. I'm pretty small for my age and I can still fit Pampers size 6. My mom will not allow me to change myself because when I put a diaper on myself it leaks so either she or my younger sister change me. My sister has always teased me about the whole thing as long as I can remember. My sister is 14 years old and loves the fact that she has to change her "baby sister's diapers" as she puts it. When my family goes on a road trip or to a large store where I may not get to a bathroom I need a diaper. I hate to admit this at 18 years old but my mom requires me to also have a babysitter to be with me out in public if she is not around to change me. My sister is usually the sitter for me. Which she loves. My sister teases me horribly and my mom will also sometimes tease me as well. My mom says she does it because she is trying to break me of "being a baby". My message to kids who are being teased is to just hang in there. If the teasing get to bad then tell someone about it.