it happens, sis. you're not alone, k? i'm 12 and some other kids (like me) older than you can get spanked, too--like sometimes for low grades or if we have like a slip of the tongue as some of my folks' friends call it and other stuff. anyway, don't worry, cause it happens. peace, pam p.s.: once you reach like a certain age, they wont spank anymore. most of my high-school-age friends dont get it anymore--only those who are my age or younger. peace.