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From Pam, Child's Age 17 - 6/16/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx  Click here to reply
I have recently noticed that my son has wet his bed. And i dont know what to do about this he has never wet the bed befor until now can any one help me please!
Reply from Joe, Child's Age 13 - 1/25/04 - IP#: 205.188.208.xxx
Reply from andrew, Child's Age 17 - 10/23/03 - IP#: 63.159.173.xxx
Reply from Tom.Uk, Child's Age 10/15/20 - 6/21/03 - IP#: 62.252.32.xxx
Reply from Steven, Child's Age N/A I'm 17 - 6/17/03 - IP#: 24.164.19.xxx
Reply from Steven, Child's Age N/A I'm 17 - 6/17/03 - IP#: 24.164.19.xxx
Reply from Sal, Child's Age 17 - 6/17/03 - IP#: 66.169.150.xxx

From Mr John for Britney, Child's Age xx - 6/15/03 - IP#: 171.75.228.xxx  Click here to reply
Talk about an embarassment to this website! I apologise for the insensitivy and character of the replies you got to your post next below...Quzar, the last to post, is absolutely disgusting. Bob 6/12/03 is out-of-order and has no business here...Chucklis 1/7/90(don't know where that came from) is not relavent, I think it was originally from the 5-10yo site and misplaced here....Tom 6/9/03 is informative, but the same-old, same-old{sorry Tom}....Patrick6/9/03 may have meant well, but he himself is the subject and written by himself, not his parent....As for myself, I do try to guide you and get for you some relavent information to help you. I do hope you read my reply and referenced the postings in it. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN FOR THE MOST PART THOSE REPLIES, as I am sure you were asking for some help, deperately needed. Once again, sorry for the dicombobulence. Let us know if we can straighten anything out for you.
Reply from adam, Child's Age i'm 25 - 6/22/03 - IP#: 192.217.109.xxx
Reply from Mr John for Adam, Child's Age xx - 6/21/03 - IP#: 171.75.231.xxx
Reply from Tom.uk , Child's Age 10/15/20 - 6/19/03 - IP#: 62.252.32.xxx
Reply from adam, Child's Age i'm 25 - 6/19/03 - IP#: 192.217.109.xxx
Reply from patrick, Child's Age i am 14 - 6/18/03 - IP#: 171.75.106.xxx

From Britney, Child's Age 11 - 6/9/03 - IP#: 24.107.93.xxx  Click here to reply
My daughter, Rachel, has been having trouble with going to the bathroom. She wets and sometimes even messes her bed at night and I'm tired of cleaning sheets, pj's, and underwear. She pees her pants at school and sometimes messes them, too. I know she's 11, and I've talked to her about going into diapers again, but she got all mad and stormed off. We've gone to the doctor and she's perfectly fine, but she still does you-know-what to her bed. Dylan, my husband, suggests forcing her into diapers, and I'm afraid that it's our only choice, but I don't want to be mean to Rachel. Please help, I'm desperate! I've tried everything, but nothing will work and diapers seem to be the only resort.
Reply from allen, Child's Age 12 - 6/17/03 - IP#: 203.94.181.xxx
Reply from Mr John(Papa), Child's Age xx - 6/13/03 - IP#: 65.57.59.xxx
Reply from Bob, Child's Age n/a - 6/12/03 - IP#: 205.242.228.xxx
Reply from chuckils, Child's Age 11 - 1/7/90 - IP#: 63.165.199.xxx
Reply from Tom .Uk, Child's Age 10/15/20 - 6/9/03 - IP#: 62.252.32.xxx
Reply from patrick, Child's Age 14 - 6/9/03 - IP#: 63.184.176.xxx

From Jack, Child's Age 16 - 6/4/03 - IP#: 24.34.91.xxx  Click here to reply
My oldest son, who just turned 16 (God Help me, he's driving!) has recently been having a bout with bedwetting after 3 1/2 years of being completly dry. I think this is being caused by too much stress. He is very involved in school and does a few sports. He's basically always busy. Bedwetting is putting more stress on him, as well as the rest of his family. His younger sister (aged 14) won't let him alone about either. When ever i try to confront him about the wetting, offering help or comfort, he gets very upset and walks off. What's the best way to start a conversation with him, as not to embarress him. Also, is it fair to ask him to leave a few activities to lighten his load and perhaps subside the bedwetting? Thanks for any comments, - Jack Shaughnessy
Reply from nic, Child's Age i am 16 - 6/28/03 - IP#: 216.6.161.xxx
Reply from Josh, Child's Age 18 - 6/22/03 - IP#: 172.197.244.xxx
Reply from patrick, Child's Age i am 14 - 6/7/03 - IP#: 65.178.145.xxx
Reply from adam, Child's Age i'm 25 - 6/7/03 - IP#: 207.89.140.xxx

From Laura(for Nikki), Child's Age 6 - 6/4/03 - IP#: 216.240.100.xxx  Click here to reply
Nikki,I am on the East Coast in the US. I am not sure of the time diff - I will try to get into the NEW Chat room at 8PM EST for the next few nights (Wednesday and Thursday)or you can email me directly at cvit@intercom.net. I would love to talk to someone about this.Laura

From Laura, Child's Age 6 - 6/3/03 - IP#: 216.240.100.xxx  Click here to reply
My daughter is 6 years old and has had maybe two or three dry nights in her life. She potty trained just as she turned two and rarely ever had a daytime accident. She infrequently wet during naps until about age 4. I have had her in pullups until about 3 months ago. I decide to stop using them because I felt that she wasn't feeling the wetness at night. We now have layers of plastic and sheets on her bed. Her pediatrician gave her the nasal spray which we have been using for 4 -5 days. It seems to work until about 5 am and then it wears off and she wets. I also wonder about the long term effectiveness i.e after she goes off the drug. He recommended a bedwetting alarm and I have ordered the Malem vibrating and sounding alarm.We limit her drinks after dinner, make her go to the toilet twice before bed and then wake her up to go when we go to bed several hours later. She seems to be waking up as she urinates or just after (unless she is extremely tired and then she sleeps right through it.) The doctor ran some tests and she has no infections. As I mentioned she has no problems holding during the day and urinates on a normal schedule.I am just getting very tired of washing these sheets and getting up every night to help her change into dry clothes. I don't want to go back to pullups - I think they are detrimental. She hasn't suffered any self esteem problems yet but she is anxious to stop wetting.I am anxiously awaiting the alarm. Any advice on how long it takes to see results. I realize I will be getting up with her every night. I don't mind if I can see a light at the end of the tunnel. Any advice or insight would be helpful.
Reply from Joe, Child's Age 13 - 1/25/04 - IP#: 205.188.208.xxx
Reply from Tom.Uk, Child's Age 10/15/20 - 6/9/03 - IP#: 62.252.32.xxx
Reply from Doug, Child's Age xx - 6/7/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
Reply from Mr John(Papa), Child's Age xx - 6/7/03 - IP#: 171.75.229.xxx
Reply from Laura(to Tom), Child's Age 6 - 6/4/03 - IP#: 216.240.100.xxx
Reply from Tom, Child's Age N/A - 6/4/03 - IP#: 159.39.16.xxx
Reply from nikki, Child's Age 10 - 6/4/03 - IP#: 80.1.12.xxx

From Brian , Child's Age I AM 17 - 5/27/03 - IP#: 24.50.17.xxx  Click here to reply
i no this is the parents areabut i need to talk to a parent...my dad is never around he works like 24/7 or at least it seems that way...and my mom is dead...anyway...me and my 13 year old brother wet at night and i dont no i guess we just need someone to talk to who knows wat they are talking aout and who understands...please reply...........
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Reply from Raymond, Child's Age 13 - 5/31/03 - IP#: 68.99.143.xxx
Reply from adam, Child's Age n/a - 5/30/03 - IP#: 192.217.109.xxx
Reply from Tom, Child's Age N/A - 5/29/03 - IP#: 159.39.16.xxx
Reply from Tom.Uk, Child's Age 10/15/20 - 5/29/03 - IP#: 80.5.86.xxx
Reply from Brian, Child's Age I AM 17 - 5/28/03 - IP#: 24.50.17.xxx
Reply from Tom, Child's Age N/A - 5/28/03 - IP#: 159.39.16.xxx

From mike, Child's Age 12 - 5/26/03 - IP#: 64.12.97.xxx  Click here to reply
Hi everyone,i have heard from a parent in the chat room that a disposible diaper will effect my sons testical growth. he has worn them for 2years and to this day i have noticed no testical growth. he also wears briefs in the day, i ask him to tell my if they feel tight around his testicals so i can bye him new ones if he needs them but he has said nothin cus they simply have not grown.my doctor said that it can cus low sperm count, and that i should ask my son if he has ejaculated. i feel really uncomfortable asking. r there any other signs i shud look for? has this happened to anyone else?
Reply from bob, Child's Age 12 - 4/15/03 - IP#: 205.188.116.xxx
Reply from Graham, Child's Age 14 - 6/2/03 - IP#: 210.55.27.xxx
Reply from Tom .UK, Child's Age 10/15/20 - 5/29/03 - IP#: 80.5.86.xxx
Reply from Tom, Child's Age N/A - 5/28/03 - IP#: 159.39.16.xxx

From Tom, Child's Age 15 - 5/23/03 - IP#: 193.217.231.xxx  Click here to reply
Our son started wetting the bed again last year after beeing dry for nearly 10 years. We brought him to the doctor, and he said it was due to a periode of heavily growing, and that he would outgrow it in some years. Th boy after serious discussions accepted to wear diapers to bed, but this has hampered his social life, as he does not any longer participate in sleeping overs with his friends as he previously did. We have asked him to confess to his best friend about the problemm, as we are sure that he will not tease our son or tell others, and hopefully they can be more together like they were earlier, but our son just turns this proposal down.Early this week he came home with wet pants from a movie visit. He was very upset, luckily for him he was wearing black jeans, and he thinks that nobody noticed. Because of this he has now locked himself in the house, beeing afraid that it will happen again, and he also admits that he fears risking an accident at school. We have proposed to him to start wearing goodnites and even bought him a package and put it in his room, but he won't even try it on, fearing that someone will notice. We have tried to convince him that there is no reason for anybody to suspect him wearing protection and that nobody will notice. We have even tried to ask him into testing one under his jeans and then looking at himself in the full-size mirror, hoping to be able to convince him that the goodnites are undetectable under jeans, but so far to no avail. We really wonder what to do to help him and encourage him, as he for the moment is quite depressed.
Reply from TOM.uK, Child's Age 10/15/20 - 5/26/03 - IP#: 62.252.32.xxx
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